scoutislooking4anadventuree asked: Reading this made me really want to get something off of my chest. I cheated on someone once, and it was a big mistake. Not only b/c I hurt him terribly, but also b/c I damaged myself tremendously as well. I was and am still ashamed when I think of it; to this day it eats at me. So I would like to mention to whoever may see this on your blog, think twice. Think about the guy you're with, the guy you're teasing, and consider how much you'll be hurting yourself. You deserve more, it's not worth it

Answer:

I’ve been cheated on in the past and I know how much it hurts; it makes you think you’re not worth it, you start to underestimate yourself and think no one will ever love you and stick with you; and because of that you shut yourself off. It’s really hard for me to trust guys now. Everytime I start dating a guy I have the feeling that eventually he’s gonna hurt me and I don’t live the relationship in a good way. I’m almost 25 and I still haven’t had a proper “boyfriend”, someone that really deserves that label. That’s why I don’t like cheating. Because it messes you up. It messed me up.

I’ve never cheated, so I don’t know how it feels like to be on the other side, but from what you say it’s pretty awful too. People make mistakes and I’m all for second chances and I really hope that you got your second chance and had the possibility to make things right :)

Thank you so much for your message! I really hope that people will see that and give a second thought about cheating :)

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